Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Week 10: 91-100

91) What food is romantic to you?

Steak dinner with all the trimmings


92) How easy is it for you to get along with people?

I can usually get along with anyone. So far, I've only found a few that I cannot find any common ground with at all.


93) Has someone ever given you a 'last chance' and for what?

I don't think so????


94) Something on your 'to-do' list that never gets done

Cutting the carpet in my daughter's room; fixing the carport; emptying the brown house


95) What's your favorite thing to eat with your fingers?

Cookies! Chex mix! Candy bars! Pizza! Hot dogs! Gyros!


96) What is your favorite or most-used cookbook?

I have two:  The handwritten one I started in the 7th grade and my first cookbook Mom gave me the Christmas I officially moved out. It was from the church ladies and has some of my favorite recipes in it.


97) What food best describes your personality?

Sweet tarts???

Reeses PB cups???


98) Would you ever do a ride along with a cop, and if so, what would you like to see?

I don't think I'd like it.


99) Do you think ignorance is bliss?

Sometimes....


100) Are you a pacifist?

Yes.  But push me too much and I can get angry!

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Week 9: 81-90

81) How could you reinvent yourself?

Not a clue. I tried being someone else on a chat loop once, but the real ME soon filtered back in.


82) What is the name of the 1st album you bought and who was it by?

Dynamic Sound-various (LP)

Abracadabra-DeFranco Family or Dark Lady-Cher (45)

Styx-Kilroy Was Here (Cassette)

Melissa Etheridge-Yes I Am (CD)

Reason To Live-Kiss (1st video looked up on YouTube)


83) What is your Chinese Zodiak sign and is it accurate?

Snake....sort of. I just want to hibernate in winter until the sun and warmth returns.


84) Do you have any prejudices you've admitted to yourself?

I do find myself being apprehensive when people of a certain ethnic group are acting loud and I'm alone.


85) Who is the first friend you remember making and how old were you?

Kim or Tad, age 5; Tim, age 2 or 3 (I have vague memories of us playing on my swings)


86) What makes you lose sleep?

Too much caffeine late in the day; stress.


87) What are 3 phrases or sayings you say every day?

Hello...did you find everything okay?

Are you a rewards member?

Thank you and have a good day!


88) Do you floss or use a toothpick when something is stuck in your teeth?

Both. It depends on what it is and where it is.


89) Have you ever swerved off the road to avoid hitting something?

Yes, when the car in front of me slammed on its brakes, I had to swerve onto the shoulder to avoid rear-ending them.


90) Compare Your driving skills to something:

Indy 500, rofl!

Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Week 8: 71-80

71) Do you think a fling could be a good thing?

Mine was....I always dreamed of a summer romance, and it arrived June 1986.  Wonderful 2 weeks, then back to the Real World.....


72) What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?

Cleaning!


73) What inspires your ideas?

Life!  And 'what if....'


74) What do you frown upon when it comes to raising kids?

"I wanna be their friend"

"My little darling would NEVER do that! What did YOU do to provoke him/her?"

"Their pronouns are (insert)" * only if they're under the age of 12.....unless you make a big deal of this crap, they'll discover for themselves.*


75) Have you ever been professionally photographed?

Does my head shot count? Owen Mills? Glamour shots?


76) Where or how do you find serenity?

I know where she lives, hee hee....seriously, in my Quiet Time, reading, or needlework. Or getting immersed in my ficitonal worlds.


77) Do you influence people more than they influence you?

I'm probably easily influenced, since I'm a chameleon, a peacemaker.


78) What can you do to make your life better?

Aside from going back in time......or winning the lottery, do a better job of marketing my books, or if my spouse had his way, give it up altogether and go full time at my Evening Job.


79) Do you buy anything organic? If so, what?

No....too pricey. Unless you count eggs.


80) Describe yourself in terms of food.

To quote a friend of mine...."Reeses Cups"

I joked that meant I was sweet on the outside and a little gooey on the inside??

Wednesday, March 5, 2025

Week 7: 61-70

61) Who's your favorite movie director and your favorite movie from them?

Most likely Steven Spielburg, and Star Wars


62) What's the furthest you've gotten a paper airplane to fly?

Halfway across the room


63) Do you like the person you're becoming?

Sort of; I don't like that I'm the 'mean' grandma to Alex, but that's what happens when your grandchild lives with you for 10 years, and her mommy worked nights for most of those years.

I'm also not happy with the fact I've woken up the past two days saying, "Yup....gonna rain today."

Seriously, I rarily get headaches, but woke up with a mild one Monday; Tuesday, I didn't want to get out of bed, but knew if I didn't, the pain would be worse; Wednesday, I talked myself out of the bed because I had a meeting to attend at 9:30. Normally I sleep until 9 or 9:30, so getting up to an alarm was met with my brain saying, "How badly do you want to go?"  I'm glad I went, because we were talking about websites, and received some valuable insights to mine!  Verdict:  I need to make some changes to my Home page!  It's not been updated since 2023.  Yikes!


64) What's the highest you've jumped into the water from?

The 5 meter board at the pool.  I refuse to go off the high dive.


65) What do or did you hate the most about the dating process?

I didn't really date. I never went out with more than one person at a time.  I didn't get 'playing the field', because how are you supposed to get to really know someone?  Mine on average lasted 3 months, with the exception of 5.  Those lasted a year or more, and I ended up marrying #5.


66) How emotional are you?

VERY!


67) Have you ever had an internship, and if not, what would be your ideal intern job?

I sort of did, at Head Start my senior year of HS. I went to school part of the day, and worked for 3 hours every day my senior year. It taught me that I'm a TUTOR, not a TEACHER.  My ideal internship would probably be in a library.


68) Do you prefer chicken, beef, or seafood?

Yes.  LMAO!  Actually, I eat more chicken.  But I love hamburgers and crab meat.


69) Have you ever had a health scare?

Sort of. Had a lymph node swell up; turned out I have an underactive thyroid. Also found a lump in my breast, but that turned out to be a reoccurring cyst.  For the record, I have ZERO breast cancer in my family.  Only heart disease and lung/esophogeal cancer (my grandparents smoked)


70) What do you love most about the holiday season?

Honestly? When it's over.  Prior to getting married, I loved Christmas. But then I married a seasonal worker who was always on unemployment by December, and didn't understand why I felt the need to buy presents for my extended family (his didn't).  It began stressing me out, even when we began drawing names.

And losing my dad right before Thanksgiving 2019, I've discovered I go into a slight depression Nov 1st until New Year's Eve. This year was the worst; I cried every day; forced myself to put up the tree and decorations, and was only happy when I was at work or baking cookies.  I WANT to make my house festive; I WANT to put up the outside lights, but when it comes to doing it, I just don't want to.

I'm slowly turning into my MIL, who always had my spouse put up her decorations the day after Thanksgiving, then take them all down again on New Year's Day.  I'm not that drastic; if I get them up after Thanksgiving, great, but they don't come down until Epiphany (2nd or 3rd week of Jan).

Ugh.  Maybe it's time to get rid of my large, prelit tree and go with a smaller, tabletop version?  I did go through and 'cull' my ornaments.  Some I set aside for Adult Son; some I put in the donation bag.  Daughter didn't want any, and the Gentle Giant still lives with us.  I just can't bear to throw away the handmade ones from their elementary years.

I said this a couple of years ago; my favorite holidays now seem to be 4th of July, Memorial Day, and Labor Day, because they don't require any special effort on my part. Right now, I generally have to work, then can come home and relax.

Week 23: 221-230

221) In What Way Has Money Impacted You In A Negative Way? I'm too spontaneous. 222) How was your very first kiss? Awkward. 223) What ag...